Ladies Wristwatch For The Blind

Love: What's this?

Time and again we see a cartoon in one of our local newspapers with the caption begins "Love is …" The electronic media continues to give us a diet of soap operas whose main theme is love – in all its forms. Walking down a street, you can not help but give in to the magnetic force to draw your attention to the message a billboard, "True Love Waits" and then go on dreaming about the meaning of the emotion of the man who must "wait". The big question revolves around unearth the mystery behind this four letter word that has been on the lips of mankind since time immemorial.

The ideas put forward by some authors notable winners and philosophers are varied and interesting if not scandalous. The legendary Greek philosopher, Plato described love as "a serious mental illness. The English poet, Samuel Daniel, she considers "a disease full of woes, all channels of refusal ". Continues in this train elite strange thought, Ambrose Bierce, American journalist and author, describes the love as "a temporary insanity curable by marriage or by removal of the patient's influence under which he incurred the disorder."

Even once the music group "SWV has asked a question in their first album" fresh start "to explain why love is the way it is the pain and joy in force in a single emotion! The Group 70, "Nazareth", concluded that love is a knife that was intended cut and cause pain.

This is the position defended by some of the world's intelligentsia and celebrities on this word is old as the universe itself. Perhaps, the mystery surrounding the flower of the novel is an indication of the complexity of the phenomenon and also a good reason why so many people have been victims of his captivating enchanting spell forgetful of his true nature!

Looking at the sentiments expressed above, it is very easy to conclude that love is a force right from hell, but perhaps a few words on the other side of the caste of elite unless proven otherwise. The great human rights activist, Dr. Martin Luther King, described as "an image of God … the lifeblood of any divine nature full of goodness that shines. Waldo Emerson, American essayist, called it "the highest word and the synonym of God." So there is at least one good side to love after all!

Love is a special and unique experience that every human being must have a moment of his life, it is clear to him or not (even Hitler had a love life!).

We're all afraid of the emptiness of separation and loneliness because we are social beings incapable of solitude. In seeking the company, we engage in relationships that we feel may or may meet our instinctive desire for love and affection. In this quest we become entangled in various forms of relationships – Exciting and other libel, pure and simple a great experience otherwise. It quickly turns out two major categories of love, love, mature and immature as stated in the following paragraphs.

immature love

Sadism

Also called the love of possession, it embodies a relationship where one partner feels pleasure and satisfaction by inflicting pain on the other. The sadist dominates all aspects of life on the other, all bits of shredded beloved identity. The beloved becomes a soft shell of a human being conditioned to a doctrine dear never to rise above or near the sadist in ideas or actions, but rather to the pleasure and pride to welcome all kinds of physical and psychological torture and humiliation. Ultimately, the identity of the partner as a persecuted person is killed and the sadist is always alone and separate. Sadism is the coexistence of two people who love each other, it is a total domination of one the other in a relationship where the partner bid ceases to exist.

Masochism

It is the opposite of sadism. Known as like love of the tender, the masochist that he has found the atonement by submitting to the torture of her lover. The masochist is immersed in a mission to be loved please. In vain, the submissive lover exaggerates the qualities of being loved even to the extent idealize them. Before the eyes of the masochist, the beloved is like a demi-god to be worshiped and obeyed and totally confident. Love the presentation persists because of a flawed logic in the mind of the masochist that he is evading the separation and loneliness by being "one" with being loved.

Although true, the beloved is always present and the masochist is never alone, but in reality, the masochist lack of initiative to contribute positively to the relationship. What is perceived as love is, in reality, slavery!

Homosexuality

This is a form of love which long has never spoken so openly as it has in recent years when the supporters of this strange love had the audacity to declare openly and even seek its legitimacy in society. Do not look far to see how unfulfilling and this love is immature, not lie with a man as one lies with a woman, it is detestable (Leviticus 18:22). "Clearly God condemns this form of love. This perverse act either men or women (lesbianism) belittles the reason of man and woman were created – to become one in love. "It is not good for man to live alone. I will make a suitable companion to help him. … God … Women also formed (Genesis 2:18, 22). If God had wanted man to share his love with another, he certainly never created the woman that her boyfriend or vice versa for Women (or would it!).

Mature love

In mature love is true and is a divine gift of God given to humanity from the moment the creator said: "Let us make man in our image." When the last key has been applied this masterpiece of creation, love has been installed as a feature in the construction, to discover and strengthened between the two people and never be "done" as the stereotype goes.

It does not involve sex, but sex must be considered secondary compared to the romantic experience two birds share the love in a relationship and intended for the completion of intimacy. Where sex before marriage is not the end of love is simply adultery!

Often in our relationship with our spouses our spouse invites us to meet the challenge to prove our love. Unfortunately, for many of us, the answer is usually sexual. That love is short lived because sooner or later the flavor orgiastic desire to die and other greener pastures barren increases. It are several ways to prove our love for others by sex – in fact many as there are stars in the sky! Let me take you in the past for some time. Do you remember the gift you have bought for her birthday last year or the executive pen that you bought last month? How am I doing so far? Remember that wonderful walk in the park you had together once or twice reflecting, amid laughter, many obstacles you went through to be where you are today or, better yet, remember that one evening, trying after a disagreement with your little friend short, you get a coincidence visited by the lady next door with some "hot proposals" in his sleeve, and despite the fact your guard is down and you are psychologically weakened by the earlier incident with the woman you love, you summoned the strength in you to say no? Such is the nature of true love.

Your love is shown when Paula and Greta, your supposed best friends, band together to topple your empire love malicious accusations against your friend and you tell them right to their faces that "he was at home all day" or "Tom would not do such a thing" – Because you know him well enough to know he is not of this type.

Woe to those who are not familiar, they are not really in love. Love is trusting each other with your deepest secrets.

Suffice it to say, true love is to give. It is our experience that gives us comfort and peace in a relationship that is supposed to be very symbiotic. We give, however, became a sort of competition. If the last Christmas you received a wristwatch from her this Christmas, you sure its bidding war with a gift even more grandiose. This game continues to show-off a stage where you are both smothered in a financial crisis that states the death knell for your relationship. If only the exchange of gifts could been Having regard for its symbolic value instead of big price tags and the prestige that comes with it, it would be beautiful love!

Fruits of true love

True love is a productive engagement that bears fruit, which illustrate his maturity. The fruits of love are, among others, care, respect, responsibility and knowledge.

Care is to show concern for your well-loved, respect involves seeing the uniqueness and individuality your lover in a light like no other person can live. You love her because she is unique, you love it, because it is "one in a million." Compliance with these features in the beloved which is unique because it attracts you. Change them and you will find a reason not to love! NI liability Love is shown in the ability and willingness of the lovers to meet everyone's needs be they financial, educational or social.

Finally, true love is full of knowledge. This last result, which illuminates and causes the fans to rise above stereotypes love common as, "love is blind", "Sex without love is dead," or the more popular "there is no romance without finance" idolized by the popular song of the 80s goes along. These, and many others are misinformed concepts without knowing. With this result, our eyes are opened to the wonder and beauty that no one else can see those we love.

At the end of the day, we can, hopefully, dealing with advertising, captions and display messages with renewed confidence since we are better placed to understand that this small thing called love is patient and kind, not jealous, conceited or proud, not rude, selfish or irritable and does not take a record of wrongs, is not happy with evil, but in truth, he quit and his faith, hope and patience never fail.

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